If you already have an estate plan, you know it’s more than just a document, it’s a carefully thought-out process that reflects your wishes, values, and goals. However, one thing we always remind clients is that estate plans are not permanent. You can (and should) update your plan whenever life changes.
So, what kinds of changes might be a good reason to take another look at your plan? Let’s talk about it.
Simple Answer: Whenever You’re Experiencing a Plot Twist
Life has a funny way of keeping things interesting. Big life changes, or even smaller ones, can all be good reasons to revisit your estate plan.
Common examples include getting married or starting a family. If you created your estate plan when you were single and later got married, you’ll probably want to update your will and powers of attorney to include your spouse. And if you’re expecting a child, it’s a great time to make sure your plan includes how you want to care for your growing family.
Even smaller shifts can matter. Maybe you’re moving, buying a new property, or starting a business, these are all good reasons to make sure your estate plan still lines up with your current life.
And then there’s retirement, that’s a big one. Retirement changes a lot about your day-to-day life, from your finances to your priorities. It’s a great time to pause and ask yourself whether your estate plan still reflects your goals and the people you want to provide for.

Change: The One Thing That Never Changes
Life doesn’t stand still, and your estate plan shouldn’t either. You don’t need to make changes every time something happens, but it’s smart to check in once in a while to make sure everything still fits where you are in life.
The good news is that updating your estate plan doesn’t have to be complicated or stressful. With the right guidance, it’s a pretty simple process.
If you’re not sure whether your estate plan needs an update, we’d be happy to walk you through it. Give our office a call to schedule a one-on-one consultation and we’ll help you make sure your plan grows right along with you.


Three Things to Keep in Mind
One of the main goals of estate planning is making sure you have a say in what happens to you and your affairs, even in the worst-case scenarios. Most people think first of wills, which ensure your wishes are followed after your death. But estate planning is not just about what happens after you are gone. It is also about protecting your voice and your choices while you are still here.
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If you die without a Will or Revocable Living Trust, the Probate Act of 1975 tells the judge who receives your assets—typically 50% to a surviving spouse and 50% to your children. Those rigid rules don’t account for blended families, charitable wishes, or unmarried partners. A properly drafted Will or Trust lets you choose the decision‑maker (executor or trustee) and the beneficiaries, sparing loved ones from conflict.


In jest, I might suggest my own kids as potential heirs, but rest assured, I’m not advocating for that. It’s just a playful nudge to get you thinking about who you want to entrust with your assets. Of course, if you really want to leave everything to my kids, I won’t stand in your way – though that might not align with your true wishes.
Next on the checklist: your assets. While we don’t need a detailed list for your will or trust – updating it for every new purchase or sale would be a hassle – having a general list with approximate values is a smart move. It’s like the roadmap guiding us to decide whether a will alone is sufficient or if we should consider bringing a trust into the estate plan. Factors like holding real estate in multiple states or having significant assets can steer us in the right direction. So, jot down those assets and their ballpark values – it’s like a treasure map leading us to the right plan.
Now, let’s talk about who’s going to be the maestro orchestrating the distribution of your assets – your personal representative. This person plays a vital role in bringing your estate plan to life, dealing with beneficiaries, family members, financial institutions, and, if needed, the probate court. It’s a big job, and you want someone up to the task. Many go for a family member, but when that’s not an option, a professional fiduciary might step in. I don’t handle this personally, but fear not, I have some excellent professional fiduciary groups in Texas that I can recommend. Banks and investment companies also offer such services. The key is to choose someone trustworthy and capable, whether it’s a family member or a professional.
It’s truly remarkable how many folks want to draft a will to ensure their assets end up where they want them to go after they’re gone, without considering the other methods available for transferring assets. They often inquire about the hierarchy between a will and other documents. As much as I’d love to see legal documents duke it out in some paper-and-ink arena, it’s not quite that simple. Since my documents don’t come to life like characters in an animation, a document battle remains a far-fetched idea. So, let’s explore more practical ways.
If you opt for a trust, the trust agreement will dictate who receives assets, but only if those assets are titled in the trust’s name. I’ve come across many trust documents where I asked what was placed inside the trust, only to be met with blank stares. Many people mistakenly assume that just creating a trust document and listing the desired assets is sufficient. But to truly place assets in the trust’s name, you need to transfer the title. Real estate requires a deed, investment accounts need change-of-ownership forms, the DMV must be informed about vehicle transfers, and banks should be made aware of new accounts under the trust’s name. This process is known as “funding the trust” and is crucial. Without proper funding, the trust agreement can’t determine property distribution because it only controls assets it owns. Many individuals who think they have it all sorted are caught off guard when an asset isn’t titled in the trust’s name. A well-thought-out estate plan should include a strategy for funding the trust, whether it’s the creator, the attorney, or another party who handles it.
A beneficiary designation is a means to transfer investment assets upon the owner’s death. These designations are set up for popular accounts like IRAs, 401(k)s, 403(b)s, Roth IRAs, Thrift Savings Plans, life insurance policies, annuities, and similar investments or policies. These designations are part of the insurance contract, ensuring assets avoid probate and specify where the money goes upon the owner’s passing. Many mistakenly assume that a will controls all assets, but that’s not the case with beneficiary designations, transfer-on-death designations, or pay-on-death designations. These determine who inherits these specific types of assets, regardless of what the will states. It’s crucial to align your beneficiary designations with your wishes as outlined in your will.